Hang in there man! You can do this! We can do this!

I been gone for long innit?

Well about a month and a bit…


This is just a quick post by the way so dont expect a novel lool!

Basically its been madddddddddddddddddddd < in all its meaning! My few months!!

I’m not going lie or front and say I didnt think this platform would get me attacked lmao!

I just didnt realise how cunning the devil was, well I knew but I FORGOT!

I got comfortable…..

It’s funny because the Bible always reminds us and also reminds us of the power we have over him but ,


I’ve realised that now

I’m back at uni and its been stupidly hectic the work load, the schedule, the things outside uni, my life!



I’ve learnt alot …

1:People are crazy!
2:Christians are human
3:Life is hard without God's help,he knows this and he keeps telling me too, I'm a stubborn wild child, he knows this, I'm a difficult case *in my eyes* but he gets me especially when noone else does and that is VERY OFTEN!!!!
4:If you dont face your mountains you can't expect to get over them.
5: To whom much is given much is required!
6:You CANNOT live YOUR God given life trying to impress others and live up to THEIR standards of living and "holiness", live by conviction hoping that your heart isn't just hard loool



Proper tryna toughen me up and that!

Sometimes when things get hard you really should appreciate God alot during those times because hes just saying”Chill out man, nah seriously chill out , I got this son/daughter/child/faithful servant.”

Sometimes I feel like David and sometimes I feel like Moses and even Miriam:

D:Always making stupid mistakes even thought I KNOW better I havent yet learnt how to PROPERLY balance my heart with my mind.

M:Always trying to over compensate and try wayyyy to hard and not just chilax and let God take control, always taking everything upon myself and getting frustrated when things don’t work how I want them too.

M:Constantly doubting resulting in massive problems where I have to be belittled in order to trust!

You dont know me trust me and its funny because alot of people think they do but I can’t count more than 4 people in my life who actually do and accept me for who I am.

A lot of people judge me because they don’t get me and they want me to do things the way they do, this’ll never work,


If you watched High School muscial and understand the song “Status quo” <<< unlike that…

*not ashamed of that last pic/reference/and the fact I watched all High School Musicals lool*

I believe in individuality and self expression and I believe God does too thats why we have PERSONAL RELATIONSHIPS with HIM, like children in a class and children to parents all different in our own ways so he deals with and teaches us in different ways and HAS NO FAVOURITES!!

A platform will always bring controversy no matter which way its delivered.

Platforms make you look up to people as if they’re not on the same level as every other HUMAN BEING!

Platforms are places where you need some kind’ve security to keep you balanced and safe.

Platforms make you vulnerable.

Platforms make people think they have the right to judge you.

Platforms can make you look good.

Platforms can make you look really really crazy.

Some people have to watch what they say and do…Some are just real and they recognise that they aren’t perfect and just tend to be as real as possible , because real attracts real, as does fake loool dont get me wrong!

I’ve also seen how people react to me when I’m in need!!!! SHOCKING!!

Either they have forgotten all about LOVE/BENEFIT OF THE DOUBT AND PATIENCE!!!


Because of the following I can always pick myself up again and again, because the righteous man WILL fall the Bible never says one day we’ll stop falling!

How would that work? There’d be no need to Jesus or God we’d be find without Him..

I could be the most revengeful if not for Him because I know how he gives me the benefit of the doubt so I learn to forgive when people shut doors in my face and talk down to me like I’m stupid, when instead they should be exposing the love of God invested in them…sharing it and encouraging their fellow fam in Christ to GROW!! and PERSEVERE!!!



But we can do ALLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL things through CHRIST  that strengthens us! Phillipians 4v13 😀 🙂 🙂 Yes!!!! Hope!!!

*this is how to tell whether you’re an extremist..right now you’re judging this photo of this mans expression through tattooing.* LMAO!!! 😛


“1Don’t judge others, and you will not be judged.2 For you will be treated as you treat others, The standard you use in judging is the standard by which you will be judged”.


Jesus purifies NOT man!

Kind’ve like if you judged me for having a Nokia E63 and presummed I misjudged and thought it’d be the same as a BB LOOOL NO just circumstance innit!



1:Remind you and I to stay strong

2:Remind you that strong people can be weak too.

3:Human beings label and catergorize but God doesn’t so trust him with you’re deepest darkest secrets and problems, he’ll reassure you and let you know your value even when you don’t.

4:Trusting God is a vital part of the relationship.

5:A wise person learns from another persons mistakes.

6:God is not a respector of man whoever he chooses to use , nah be im own wahala!!!!!

If you got any queries about me….ask God!

He put me here!

Its a journey …

I’m not trying to be perfect…

Just doing what he wants me to…

P.S: As my Facebook states: “Facebook will never prove how genuine you are about your faith or religion..Why? Facebook is like bespoke tailoring…Made to fit! Its your edited perception of yourself..Dont believe me ? Check your profile pics…”

Awwwww if anyone gets offended don’t worry to much this isn’t so much for you its for the struggling brothers and sisters, keep your head up though , WE CAN DO THIS!



Erm Hello…Love is a Verb if you didn’t know!! :)

Yes..! As the title of this post says>> Love is a verb

And a verb is a doing word…

A doing word as I’m sure you guys know, is a word that conveys the action that you are DOING <<<< operative word ..DOING!

Hahahahaha! It’s soo nuts because when you come to realise the truth about something, it’s makes you query what you were taught and how you were taught it!!

Think about it though…

Society has taught us the noun love, and the definition of this is;

A deep, tender, ineffable feeling of affection and solicitude toward a person, such as that arising from kinship, recognition of attractive qualities, or a sense of underlying oneness.

Or…An intense emotional attachment, for something.

We’ve watched movies where people FALL in love …<<

Also the stories of love in the media, usually begin one sided and end with the lover convincing or prooving their undying  love for their desired lover. Or something drastic happening because they didn’t receive in return what they gave out.


Erm … *scratches head*,  when you say that out loud it sounds scary, why does it sound so negetive?

Why can’t people JUMP in love

Or SWIM in love

Or GLIDE in love??

No for real..I have a straight face on right now…

If we fall in love, wouldn’t that mean we should’ve been watching were we were walking? That saying makes it sounds like we will end up in a ditch all for love?

The way the word has been thrown around recklessly leaving us with a distorted view of love.

I’m not saying that love isn’t a noun, because there are however many words which can be a nouns and verbs,

For example :

Act, Broadcast, Care, Fight Look, Play, Race, Silence, to name a few…

But lets focus on the verb love..

Because genuine verb Love is good …

Definiton: To have charity for or unselfish loyal and benevolent concern for the good of another.

We usually get images of this ‘good’ type of love which usually depicts someone giving presents which please the recipient.

But… according to God’s standards, Love is THE Greatest, it’s complete Selflessness, practically living for someone else and for the better of someone else.

I’m going to reference from the most obvious scripture ever..I mean the one quoted on most weddings and Valentines Day and Anniversaries but not ever really taken to heart…


1 corinthians 13 v4-8

4:Love is patient.Love is not jealous or boastful or proud.

5:or rude.It does not demand its own way.It is not irritable, and it keeps no record of being wronged.

6:It does not rejoice about injustice but rejoices whenever the truth wins out .

7:Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through very circumstance.

8:Prophecy and speaking in unknown languages and special knowledge will become useless. But love will last forever!

Verse 13.

13:Three things will last forever – faith, hope, and love- and the greatest of all of these is love.


This is plain English as modern as it gets so I’m sure this is self explanitory…

So clearly actions speak louder than words according to God…

So next time you say you love someone try putting your name where love is in every verse of this chapter, and see if you really fit in this picture, painted by God.

Some people might think this love is sooo boring especially those carnal minded people who are not married yet, but are dreaming of sexually charged passionate nights in with their dream partners …

Yeah you know who you are loool..if you feel weird reading this part its YOU 🙂 don’t worry thats the reason for this post!! 🙂

As a Christian, the Bible recommends that we should be led by the Holy Spirit and not by our emotions.

Galatians 5 v 16 -24

16:So I say let the Spirit guide your lives.Then you wont be doing what your sinful nature craves. 17:The sinful nature wants to do evil (carnal minded things, anything against God’s will)which is the opposite of what the Spirit wants. And the spirit gives us desires of the opposite of what the sinful nature desires. These two forces are constantly fighting each other, so you are not free to carry out your good intentions.

18:But when you are directed by the spirit you are not under the obligation to the law of Moses. 19:When you follow the desires of the sinful nature the results are very clear;sexual immorality, impurity, lustful pleasures, 20: idolatry, sorcery, hostility, quarelling, jealousy, outburst of anger, selfish ambition, division, 21: envy, drunkness, wild parties, and other sins like these. Let me tell you again, as I have before, that anyone living that sort of life will not inherit the Kingdom of God.

22:But the Holy Spirit produces this kind of fruit in our lives; love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, 23:gentleness, and self control.There is no law against theses things. (so they must be good)

Don’t get me wrong there is nothing wrong with passion but the passion we should uphold is the one of Christ for Christ and Christ like things, especially as we are now family members<< in the body of Christ, brothers and sisters!!

Do you fancy your blood relatives??…EXACTLY looool..I bet your cringing ..YOU SHOULD BE ..so don’t perve on your family in Christ.

You will however be able to enjoy this passion, when you are united as one with your husband or wife, which will eventually link you both together in the flesh making your bond stronger emotionally.

Let me give you examples so you don’t die of confusion and lack of knowledge! 🙂

Love (noun): The Bible does talk about emotional love, that is attatched to feelings…

Songs of Solomon  8 v 6-7

6:…For love is as strong as death, it’s jealousy as enduring as the grave. Love flashes like fire, the brightest kind of flame. 7:Many waters cannot quench love, nor can rivers drown it. If a man tried to buy love with all his wealth, his offer would be utterly scorned.

Sounds like a kind of passion that is difficult to get rid of like a wild fire once ignited, so it has a possibility of being uncontrollable, which could lead to negetive outcomes…especially when its not accepted,or tamed it can turn into lust..

I’m sure you know the story of David and Bathsheba

2 Samuel 11 v2-5

and the story of Amnon and Tamar

2 samuel 13 v 1-21

Such burning passions untamed can result in negetive outcomes, someone getting hurt or abused.

So don’t confuse the logic of love (verb) with the emotional feelings of love (noun).

The love you should show towards you brothers and sisters in Christ:

1 John 4 v7-8:

7: Dear friends let us continue to love one another, for love comes from God. Anyone who loves is a child of God and knows God. 8: But anyone who does not love does not know God, for God is love.

1 John 2 v 9

9: If anyone claims, “I am living in the light”, but hates a Christian brother or sister, that person is still living in darkness. 10:Anyone who loves another brother or sister is living in the light and does not cause others to stumble. 11: But anyone who hates another brother or sister is still living and walking in darkness. such person does not know the way to go, having been blinded by the darkness.

1 John 3 v 14- 15

13:If we love our Christian brothers and sisters, it proves that we have passed from death to life. But a person who has no love is still dead. 15:Anyone who hates another brother or sister is really a murderer at heart.And you know that murderers dont have eternal life within them.

Hebrews 13 v 1-2

1:Keep loving each other as brothers and sisters. 2:Don’t forget to show hospitality to strangers, for some who have done this have entertained angels without realising it!

So as clear as this English is, we are to love our brothers and sisters in Christ as we would do our family..well as some of us do. Forgetting every wrong they may have done , giving them the benefit of the doubt in circumstances, being there to help them looking out for them and taking care of them as you would yourself.

If you are dating/in a relationship, the kind of love you should be reflecting and searching for in each other, is the kind of love God finds pleasing, an everlasting type of love that is not dependent on circumstances for it to be expressed, a constant selfless love that reflects that of Christ.

John 13 v 34-35

34:So now I am giving you a new commandment; Love each other. Just as I have loved you, you should love each other. 35: Your love for one another will prove to the world that you are my disciples.

John 15 v 12- 13

12:This is my commandment; Love each other in the same way that I have loved you. 13: There is no greater love than to lay down one’s life for one’s friend.

If you are thinking but that says ‘friends‘ ..I’m sorry for you  if you don’t long for your life partner to be your best friend, the relationship needs to last, and I’m sure you’re going to want it to last so why not marry a true friend? I also know there will be feelings for one another but those need to be tamed, so that time can reveal whether this person can stand as your backbone in Christ, through all types of trials.

Lust is not involved in this process neither is lust a positive thing it’s one of the commandments to not lust…

Lust is longing for something that you do not need, and usually something that is not nessecarily good for you .

Sexual lust is a craving for sexual intercourse, which can sometimes assume a violent or self-indulgent character, like rape, molestation, masturbation, in men and women.

Love requried in marriage:

Ephesians 5 v 21-23:

21: And further, submit to one another out of reverence for Christ.

22: For wives this means submit to your husband as to the Lord. 23: For the husband is the head of his wife as Christ is the head of the church . He is the Savior of his body, the church.


25: For husbands this means love your wives, just as Christ loved the church. He gave up his life for her 26:To make her holy and clean, washed by the cleansing of Gods word…


28:In the same way, husbands ought to love their wives as  they love their own bodies. For a man who loves his wife actually shows love for himself.

1 Peter 3 v 6-7

6: For instance, Sarah obeyed her husband, Abraham, and called him her master. You are her daughters when you do what is right without fear of what your husband might do. 7:In the same way, your husbands must give honor to your wives. Treat you wife with understanding as you live together. she may be weaker than you are (physically) but she is your equal partner in God’s gift of new life. Treat her as you should SO YOUR PRAYERS WILL NOT BE HINDERED.

I made the last part capitals because some weak guys tend to get excited when the Bible says women should submit.They fail to realise that that comes easier to women, because of the emotions that they are made with. So they’ll do things that they feel are right or feel right, or because of the feeling of love for something.

So calm your hype if you are a still a boy, because it takes more to LOVE. Remember to put your name in 1 Corinthians 13 where love is and see if your doing it right loool because this is a commandment from the Lord not from me :). Your prayers will be blocked Jesus will not be able to intercede until you do what is pleasing to Him.

Think super Mario and the Princess 🙂

So all in all its the everlasting undying love of Christ we need to begin to reflect and expect.

Check this out ‘For the True Man of God’ by P4CM

1 John 4 v 9-11

9:God showed how much he loved us by sending his one and only son into the world so that we might have eternal life through him. 10: This is real love – not that we loved God, but that he loved us and sent his son as a sacrifice to take away our sins. 11: Dear friends, since God loved us that much, we surely ought to love each other.

Love (verb) without Love (noun)

So Love, without compassion, and actions, is incorrect. Saying you love someone but not being able to show it,is wrong and was corrected by Jesus in Matthew.

Matthew 5 v 38 – 45.

38:You have heard the law that says the punishment must match the injury. ‘An eye for an eye, and a tooth for a tooth.’

39: But I say, do not resist an evil person! If someone slaps you on the right cheek, offer the other cheek also. 40: If you are sued in court and your shirt is taken from you, give your coat, too.41: If a soldier demands that you carry his gear for a mile, carry it two miles. 42: Give to those who ask, and don’t turn away from those who want to borrow. 43: You have heard the law that says, ‘Love your neighbour’ and hate your enemy. 44: But I say, love your enemies! Pray for those who persecute you! 45: In that way, you will be acting as true children of your Father in Heaven.

So now we are all capable of loving one and other with the help of the Holy Spirit now in us.

Romans 5 v 4-5

4: And endurance develops strength of character, and character strengthens our confident hope of salvation. 5:And this hope will not lead to disappointment. For we know how dearly God loves us, because he has given us the Holy spirit to fill our hearts with his love.

Romans 12 v 9-10

9:Don’t just pretend to love others. Really love them. Hate what is wrong. Hold tightly to what is good. 10: Love each other with genuine affection, and take delight in honouring each other.

Romans 13 v 8 & 10

8: Owe nothing to anyone except for your obligation to love one another. If you love your neighbour, you will fulfill the requirements of God’s law.

9:For the commandments say, “You must not commit adultery. you must not murder. You must not steal. You must not covet.” These – and other such commandments – are summed up in this one commandement,” Love your neighbour as yourself.” 10: Love does no wrong to others, so fulfills the requirements of God’s law.

Don’t worry if someone throws your love back in your face, the love of Jesus was also rejected but definately worth it in the long run. Also don’t be full of fear of what might happen when you show love because the love of God is fear free!

1 John 4 v 18

18: Such love has no fear, beacause perfect love expels all fear. If we are afraid it is for fear of punishment, and this shows that we have not fully experienced his perfect love. 19:We love each other because he loved us first.

1 John 3 v16

16: We know what real love is because Jesus gave up his life for us. So we also ought to give up up our lives for our brothers and sisters.

I hope this post hasn’t left you feeling a bit guilty, inadequate and not fitting.. don’t worry that’s the reason Jesus died for us, he gives us 2nd changes as long as we are willing to try. The Bible also helps edify us, and show us where we are going wrong..

Be glad that Jesus came to show us the love required of God.

So don’t see this as me speaking but the Holy Spirit in me.

We all need Jesus man His holy spirit renews us everyday!

Listen to this by Tye Tribbett  ‘I need you’

This post wouldn’t be if not for Him so thank Him for taking that plank out of your eye… and mine!! Don’t go thinking I’m perfect mate trust me God is a very gracious God!

Anyhoo for now..

Listen to this song by Mali Music.. ‘Make me Better’

Keep seeking God’s Kingdom & His righteousness..

…Jokes….Tears and Realisation…

Ok so this story is quite a strange story , well its not strange its just a bit random lool!

You also have to promise not to laugh, but everything happens for a reason as you’ll realise at the end of this blog post!


Ok so last night, I sat in bed …

I picked up my daily bread and read it …

I’m not gonna try and front because I’m Christian, and say “Oh I was blesssssed and heavens floodgates poured out all over me!”

Nah not even, I didnt get it not because it wasn’t factual but because I was itching for something , to quench the thirst in my life, and at that point it weren’t wetting my spirit…

So I picked up this book I’m reading called

“Be angry but don’t blow it”

looool bet that gave you an insight into my walk!


Great book, (yeah…I’m on page 11, and I read fast… :()

But not for that moment in time…

So I picked up my Bible…

I had my iPod playing out loud on my speakers in the backgroud and it was on the ‘On the Go’ list , on shuffle..<<<I love the way i just built up momentum there, I’m getting scared and I’m the one typing..and I know the story! What is this!?


Ok so yeah I decided to take a trip down Roman Lane .

I started at Romans 1 again reading the footnotes and the verses and that…


*does tearing sound*

I tore the top of the page!!!!!

I gasped for air, in total shock…

And then I felt my lips pouting and my eyes swelling?

could it be …?!.

I sobbed for like 2 seconds ..

I know…right now Christians aswell as non believers might think I’m some stupid emotional fragile woos!

Don’t care let me finish my story…

Then I asked my self… “Why are you crying?”

and I just clocked over all over again…

(I’m gonna tell you it,in the stages of thought as it was in my head )

(Song playing at that moment in time.. Agnus Dei by Donnie Mcclurkin)

1:I’ve never torn my Bible before…

2:I really love my Bible…

3:This is the Bible that my dad got me on my birthday

4:This is the same Bible I begged for for years , one that has maps, notes, charts,character profiles, timelines, theology scripts and everythinggg..

5:This is the Bible I began to take my walk seriously with

6:This is the Bible that I quote from confidently

7:This is the Bible that gave me life

8:If my Bible is torn and I loose some words…no what would happen if one day my Bible was confiscated? like by law?

9:I am nothing without my Bible…

10:I am nothing without God….


Its funny because I knew this…

Yeah I knew this but I forgot I think.

Being human is quite annoying, your Id always gets the better of you because it’s uncontrollable, and it’s desires are always beyond belief. But as the bible says  Jeremiah 17 v9-10 “The human heart is the most decietful of all things, and desperatley wicked.Who really knows how bad it is? But I the Lord searches all hearts and examin secret motives. i give all people their due rewards, according to what their actions deserve.”

Then I started to think about my place on earth my purpose and my plaforms.

Check this first and then I’ll explain myself…

Romans 1 v17-32

(You can read it yourself but I’m going to type it up for clarity)

17:This Good News tells us how God makes us right in hs sight.This accomplished from start to finish by faith. As the Scripture says, “It is through faith that a righteous person has life”

Meaning its only through faith, and our trust in Christ that we are right with God… believing in the freedom Christ brings, and the forgiveness through the sheading of His blood on the cross. Anything we’ve done has been forgiven and forgotten, and a chance to be right accoring to Gods standards is now available.

 18:But God shows his anger from heaven against all sinful, wicked people who supress the truth by their wickedness. 19:They know the truth about God because he has made it obvious to them. 20: for ever since the world was created, people have seen the earth and sky. Through everything God made, they can clearly see his invisible qualities-his eternal power and divine nature. So they have no excuses for not knowing God.

Youch guys!! loool there you go, saved or not saved , and for the saved guys I hope this shows you something to reference back to if you witness to an athiest 🙂 Just take a look outside and ask yourself who and how the earth itself was created. The fact that it is the only planet with living beings, oxygen water and land, evergrowing and that, and if its due to your ‘evolution’ then why are the other planets not ‘evolving’?…

21:Yes, they knew God, but they wouldn’t worship him as God or even give him thanks. And they began to think up foolish ideas of what God was like. As a result, their minds became dark and confused. 22:Claiming to be wise, they instead became utter fools. 23: and instead of worshipping the glorious, ever living God, they worshipped idols made to look like mere people and birds and animals and reptiles.

Ahahahaha I think this might just be a one man joke..

This was MEEEEEEEEEEE guys! Some any scientific know it all goon that thought they had all the answers to query the very exsistence of God?! Huuuh Waaat! Yes! Me ! Believe it please . I was a Hippie, a Buddhist, a punk, an emo, a Skinhead and anything else i could test out! I used to chant the locust chant “Namyur rekucher”. This apparently was supposed to calm me down and help me think positively and straight and when I feel like lashing out I was to do this…? Like counting to 10!

I belived in peace and love and understanding , I hated rules and I never ever understood the reason for Christ I used to say “He just makes it so difficult like why cant we just pray to God?” I used to say “If God created the world why is this and why is that?” and I never acutally sat down and read the Word of God?! I know how does that work ..where was my opinion formed from loool?! 

I was a crazy evolutionsists with so called theorys!


I invented my own God who done things my way and no this wasn’t the Arc of Covenant God wasn’t hovering between no cherubims loool….


I was always a top student always got good grades from primary school I used to get 6a’s like the topest of the possible grade and I never even tried hard loool, even when I got kicked out of school and put in center , missed months of schooling, I did my GCSE’s and got A’s and B’s and C’s. I went through college barely going in and got nice marks to go uni with.

I got abit too big for my boots and thought because ‘I made it this far‘ I must be as dumb as the wisest man!


Went to a lot of church services in my life and had been performing on stage since I was 5 infront of large Christian audiences.

God was using me even though I wasn’t really in line with him, this also relates back to Paul… 


I was a Christian on sundays and when it was relevant.

Noone knew what I was getting up to behind closed doors .

So when I started searching during my college days I had a Bible study mentor who used to really put up with me and teach me but as stuborn as I was and hard hearted I used to say things like “But we all make mistakes and noones perfect” there was an excuse for everything…

Watch this video …”Almost saved” by P4CM..

This is what my life as like…

The last part of this verse in Romans said…

24:”So God abandoned them to do whatever shameful things their hearts desired. As a result, they did vile and degrading things with each other’s bodies. 25: They traded the truth about God for a lie. so they worshipped and served the things God created instead of the Creator himself, who is worthy of eternal praise! Amen. ..28:since they thought it foolish to acknowledge God , he abandoned them to their foolish thinking and let them do things that should never be done.29:Their lives became full of every kind of wickedness, sin, greed, hate, envy, murder, quarelling, deception, malicious behaviour and gossip.30: they are backstabbers, haters of God, insolent, proud, and boastful.They invent new ways of sining, and they disobey their parents.31:They refuse to understand, break their promises, are heartless and have no mercy. 32:They know God’s justice requires that those who do theses things deserved to die, yet they do them anyway. Worse yet, they encourage others to do them too.

Again that was me…Sinning and doing it with such guilt but the  more I did it the less I cared, because I thought God would understand. What people don’t understand when it comes to sin is that, sin is everything that God hates, and the standards for sin belong to God we can’t just start trying to decide what we think is and isn’t a sin when we didn’t create ourselves. People who do that are not living according to the ways of God’s righteousness, they have chosen to do their own thing and because God sees their hearts as the Scripture says, he knows when they’ve gone to far with their hardened hearts and abandons them to think the way they think, and allows them to convince them selves they aren’t doing anything bad. 

I was a proper Prodigal daughter boi!!

If your not clear about this go to Luke 16 v11-32

 I came across this scripture… in Romans loool (again) and I laughed at the raw truth and sarcasim and stopped in silence to a realisation which I had not yet.

Romans 3 v10-22…

10:As the Scripture says, Noone is righteous- not even one.11:Noone is truly wise; noone is seeking God.12:All have turned away; all have become useless. noone does good not a sinlge one. 13:Their talk is foul, like the stench from and open grave. Their tongues are filled with lies. Snake venom drips from their lips.14: Their mouths are full of cursing and bitterness. 15:They rush to commit murder.16: Destruction and misery always follow them. 17:They don’t know where to find peace.18:They have no fear of God at all.”


watch the sarcasim loooooool!!! 😀

19: OBVIOUSLY,the law applies to those to whom it was given, for it’s purpose is to keep people from having excuses and to show that the entire world is guilty before God. 20:for no one can ever be made right with God by doing what the law commands, the law simply shows us how sinful we are. 

 In my Bible I noted, Yearn to be more like Jesus, put away anything that proves otherwise. Appreciate God’s love…boi forever imperfect, God must really love us ! :S

21:But now God has shown us a way to be made right with him without keeping the requirements of the law, as was promised in the writings of Moses and the prophets long ago. 22: We are made right with God by placing our faith in Jesus Christ. And this is true for everyone who believes, no matter who we are.

Note to self: Thankyou Jesus!

 So because of Jesus Christ I am now the following.


























Ok so you probably think Okay where she going with this shes so weird..


I was convicted….Christians and non believers love to hear that you know lool they seem to like to amplifiy other peoples wrongs.

But God is good and works for a purpose..so its all good..

So…this is my blog rightt?


This is my platform yes?

Yes Obui whats the point?

Let’s look back at Paul

Paul was an articulate, sensitive, fierce and intense know it all, when he met Christ and became saved the only difference changed was that he channeled all this energy through teaching the gospel.

I started this blog in June I think …

The reason for my blog as the first part says is..

June 2010

The First Desicion…

I have finally made the long overdue decision to start typing my thoughts, and to share them with the rest of the world that has access to the World Wide Web…

The Ocean Is Deep…

It has depths you may never see the bottom of, and so is the depths of my mind also similar…


I forgot to use my platform….:S

“Hello Obui you there? Hellloooo? Erm i heard you had something to tell us? something we needed to know.. ? no? When you’re ready then? Erm..Okay bye?”

And for a long time I’ve had writers block… and realised that I’ve slyly been misusing this platform. Like Paul he channeled his passions and characteristics through Christ like things and teaching the Gospel.

To be honest and logical if Paul didnt go to Rome, then the Bible couldv’e taken a little longer to get to Britain, as if you read history you’d know the Romans invaded Britain and took over and had the English as slaves, teaching the people the ‘new way’ which was infact ‘Christian’… in their own way mind you loool.

So where does this leave me as a Christian, who is supposed to go out into the world and spread the good news??

This would mean I would use this blog to communicate the Gospel to those who have misunderstood *YAYS* 😀 as I once was in that postion… 😦

The funny thing is, as I’m sure I now sound obsessesed with Paul but..another thing Paul said that I totally agree with and am feeling these days is this…

Phillipians 1:21-24For to me, living means living for Christ, and dying is even better. But if I love, I can do more fruitful work for Christ. So I really don’t know which is better. I’m torn between two desires; I long to go and be with Christ, which would be far better for me. but for your sakes, it is better that I continue to live”

The Bible does says that “Teach and counsel each other with the wisdom he gives” and “Whatever you do or say, do it as a representative of the Lord Jesus giving thanks through him to God the Father”

This does tend to leave me feeling like this….

So now on my blog its gonna be.. as Brandon and Armor say …

 “Straight Gospel no positive gas!”

Its all good talking about things that are uplifting and teaching people about things they don’t know but what is the point of that knowledge when there are people who don’t even know Christ?

The Gopsel is positivity in itself!

The Gospel is Life! everlating!



As most Christians do to proove they are ‘righteous’ .I’ll leave every trace of my past there or whatevers left of it…That way you’ll be able to see the difference and see the Jesus I represent, like Paul.. his story was told from the begining of him not just from his time as an Apostle.

Repping Christ to the fullest in anyway possible, no apologies guys!



I started thinking …well started a while back to think about Facebook

Why we use it and how we’ve acted when we’ve used it and what it’s main aims are..

Not the aims they tell us but the aims they DO NOT tell us…


At one point in time everyone who has made a profile page on Facebook HAS become addicted.

I use the term lightly but heavily at the same time and I’ll list some examples so you can decide whether you’ve fallen into some of these categories..

1:Log on first thing in the morning to check if anyones messaged you added you, tagged you in a pciture or commented on your wall.

2:Stay logged on wherever you go (especially on your phone) ..just incase of the above. Getting Facebook app on your phone, so you can take Facebook with you wherever you go.

3:Supossed to do an assignment but you check your Facebook first just to be ‘socially up to date’ whatever that means on the INTERNET<!.

4: Nothing is actually going on on your Facebook page/profile so you scroll through your home page to see what your ‘friends‘ are up to like a nosey neighbour, instead of just logging off and getting on with something more important.

5:Appearing online, because there is that possibility that someone out of your very few or very many friends, may want to talk to you even after hours of being online and noone has started a conversation..*sad face*.

6:You’re always quick to reply a message or status update or comment on a picture and are usually the first to reply !

7: Everywhere you go and in everything you do Facebook is on your toungue.
Its the first and the last thing you speak about, whether it be about who was doing what, who said what, or what you may have sussed out by snooping on so so and so’s page..

8: You’re always logged on at early hours of the morning Ie: 4am, randomly updating your status every second on stupid things like , “I just walked in and I’m hungry” and “Just putting the toilet seat down

9: Buying gifts on Facebook when its a friends birthday!!!! like why on earth are you spending money virtually on nothings? You’re paying Facebook to give you gifts you can see and not touch?? Like fake shopping or window shopping if you like except you’ve given them  REAL money and got nothing tangible in return…?!< yeah I know! maddd?

Ask youself why you have an account with Facebook and why they are dealing with your money….


The strange stalkerish feeling that overcomes you, that you tend to excuse for CHECKING UP ON  ‘friends’…


Examples of Facebook Stalking and Facebook Stalkers:

a: You’re on your home page , you click on a friends name and scroll through their page, then to their pictures and go through every album, (you are alone at home).

b:That guy/girl you take a fancy to… you add them, even though you don’t actually talk to them in real life/reality, from there on you begin aimlessly parolling their profile page and checking to see who writes on it, what kind of things they say on their Status updates and what they get up to in their pics.

c: You comment on your friend’s (or usually your new friend or someone you haven’t written to or tagged or poked in a while) 75th profile picture, this is clear evidence that you have been ‘flicking’ through their pics silently but was urged to click ‘Like’ and then got caught out that you were indeed picture stalking!

d: You’re having a wall to wall with your friend (John Smith>Rachel Brown Hey Rach! Remember yesterday at the pub!! Loving the sun! Good old British weather!) and LOW AND BEHOLD its long lost Tim from 9 months back who added you and never really spoke to you. Wait… now he’s commenting freely and comfortably on your wall post (Tim Brown-Noser: “Yeah, John! Great weather yesterday, man! Roll on the summer!! Woo!”).

Ok… nothing wrong with that he’s just being friendly. Of course, without a doubt, throughout the day Tim imposes himself on every detail of your Facebook life; commenting on every unsuspecting facebook status, relationship status, profile photo and the list goes on…

e.  You delete someone off Facebook (usually someone that you don’t really know or don’t really have a tangible facebook friendship with) but they constantly add you back after you repetitively ignore their frequent friend requests. This clearly shows that they are persistently checking up on your activites on Facebook .These people have forgotten the actual meaning of ‘checking up’ on someone they forget it comes with a conversation, a message, or maybe a phone text! *rolls eyes* When did checking up just mean making sure your on their Facebook friends list? Like a minder who doesn’t take care of the kids but calls watching Tv,whilst making sure they are in visual distance, minding?!




Definition: Coercive persuasion comprises social influences capable of producing substantial behavior, attitude and ideology change through the use of coercive tactics and persuasion, via interpersonal and group-based influences.

The ‘Like’ emoticon: I don’t know if you’ve noticed the little adverts/ notifications usually situated on the left hand side of the home page that have ‘Like’ emoticons that seem to entice you into clicking by telling you that ’14 of your friends also Like’ this random music genre/film/group/celebrity… an then your overcome by defensive thoughts like “I don’t care if so an so likes it doesn’t mean I have to!” and ” Why is Facebook trying to make me like it just because my friends do?” and “what the hell? Whats Facebook up to?” ..then you click it anyway loooooooool! We’ve all been there!

Event attendance/Group joining: Then like the above there’s the event and group suggestions that remind you that a few of your friends are attending or like that certain group as if to say, if they reminded you that you may just like it too… accidentally forgetting that every individual has a mind of their own and can make choices on their own…and not everyone is a follower…<<

Friends suggestions:  Like one of those annoying mothers, aunties, fathers and uncles, who think they know what your friends are thinking and they know what is best in a generation wayyy away from their own :S , Facebook has begun to ‘ENCORAGE’ people to add people as so called ‘friends‘ even though they don’t know them or wouldn’t ever do so in reality. Then the cheekiest part of it is that your reminded that ‘YOU MAY KNOW THEM’ ..The thing I wonder and think to myself is that if I really wanted to find them I’m sure I’d just type them in the search box. If I really wanted to communicate with them I’d ring them, text them and if I have no credit, then I may result in typing their name in THEN add them to my actual friends list which I’m hoping is full of people I actually know/have met, and not some random stalker, peodophile or murderer,  hiding behind a pic of a celebrity or event flyer…

Unrequested opinion/comment:  I don’t know if you have noticed the little unnotified changes on your Facebook page, such as the new openess to COMMENT and LIKE a wall post, that had absolutely NOTHING  TO DO WITH YOU, neither at any point were you invited into the conversation, but the new ‘Comment‘ space left open to you with your picture beside it, just seemed to entice you and draw you into voiceing your unnessacary uncalled for opinion…

We wouldn’t do this on a train/bus/at work? We wouldn’t usually get involved with someones conversation without permission?

Again…we’ve all been there its the comfortability Facebook offers us to become THE Facebook patrollers and CCTV of our friends and their friends’  buisness.




 Since when did Facebook the internet site become an emotional being with feelings and questions about feelings,causing the emotionally enclined to express without ‘pressure’….

Facebook and it’s questions…

Facebook: “What’s on your mind?” 

Im sure you’ve forgotten the days when Facebook used to ask..

Person 1 Insecure: “Hey just got my Blackberry this is my BB kmhp987 feel free to add me whoever you are, I accept everyone and anyone

(and I really NEED a chat I’m LONELY)

Person 2 Angry: ” Thanks all my haters, thanks for being my haters you make my life feel so good and I’m becoming even more better with you, Keep hating Mother F******!!!

(You make me CRY AT NIGHT but I’ll ACT like you dont so you’ll feel to dumb to continue , you TEAR UP my self esteem)

Person 3 Ignorant:OMG I’m in love with overseas countries..the shopping is amazing , but I prefer London to United kingdom

(I have NEVER been out of the country LET ALONE overseas, but I steal pics from google to make it LOOK  LIKE I’ve been places I KNOW NOTHING about, I have to KEEP UP this glamorous FACADE)

Person 4  Cyberthug : ” If my name comes out of anyones mouth I will personally FORCEFULLY introduce you to my FIST bravvv, that’ll be your new friend from now truuusss, so I dare you to keep talking ..DUN KNOW

(If i ACT tough on Facebook HOPEFULLY it’ll DETER people from ACTUALLY APPROACHING ME in reality)

 Person 5 Pretender/Profile pic/ updater: ” We had a fabulous time at the ritz this weekend !! OMG those HOT guys don’t even ask LMAO!”

(Everyone SEEMS TO have had a blast this weekend, well their PROFILE PICS say so, maybe if I UPDATE these pics I FOUND ON GOOGLE of the Ritz hotel, so THEY WONT KNOW I was cuddling up on my sofa ALONE with Pot Noodle and Britains Got Talent.)

Person6 : Apparent Facebook devout religious person: ” God is Good if you believe this and you’re not ashamed to say, post this on wall and God’ll bless you!!!

(As far as people on my Facebook know I’m a DEVOUT RELIGIOUS FOLLOWER, well apart from that MURDER LAST WEEK..the ACCIDENTAL ARMED BANK ROBBERY and the three pidgeons I SHOT OFF my balcony a few minutes back! Hmmm well I’m safe behind Facebook aye!)




 For all those weaklings that are afraid to do or say anything face to face that reallly need to get a grip on life looooooooool!

Like Youtube: The Cyberbully’s Playground hiding behind a computer screen and attacking any random virtual passer-by, just for acting-tough’s sake; voicing a violent and abusive point of view that NOBODY asked for  !!! Who are you guys??

Like, for real man, whatttup?



I study Fashion promotion so I’ve learnt what types of magazine publicatons are being made and sold, the audiences and the reason for the content of the publication.

Types of magazines:

Periodicals, Glossies and Serials

Publishing schedules:

Weekly: OK magazine, Now magazine

Monthly: Dazed & Confused, I;D, Vogue

Bi Annualy: GQ, Fantastic Man.

 Fashion glossy magazines are a place where, celebrity and pop culture merge. Discussing their business, what they wore last , advice about high street fashion that the readers can afford, which is a cheaper a or more affordable if you like, version of high fashion clothing ..so people who lack decent role models, can copy, ‘imitate’ and buy into, if you like the celebrity way of life, through a long list of materialistic options, which usually includes, spending, sexing, makeup, surgery, fashion, agony aunt’s advice on guys..and so on…or more specifically, a constant update of information to download into your mindsets, which creates increasingly lustful desires for things you cannot do, get, make, or afford! This will obviously keep the editors pockets full while you continue to buy into their pages of deceit, and become more and more conditioned into a way of life for you best suited by them…

Read this link and find out more:



What this online, 25/8 personally updated, glossy gossip mag about yourself and friends, does is create a  faux celebrity-like mindset which rapidly lifts up and harshly drags people down from self-appointed virtual pedestals where they are worshipped by ‘friends’, ‘fans’ and ‘stalkers’ alike.

 Think about it though – is there any distinctive difference? Except that  you fill in all the nosey details for the world to see and applaud and, after a while, mock?










A lot of people who tend to be extremely insecure within themselves – (although everybody has their insecurties) – use a defense mechanism to make them feel better about themselves. Like picking at others faults in an attempt to minimize their own. Facebook only encourages this with the tagging of pics that show who’s been doing what and where, and what they were wearing when they were doing whatever they were doing wherever they were doing it!!

 You’ll hear things like, ” OMG, did she really wear that with those shoes?” or ” Why on earth is he posing like that in that pic; hes such a weirdo!” and so on and on forth…

…creating a real life day to day, glossy gossip magazine tv advertisement experience…

Like these:


Facebook has created a kind of Worldy order where everybody and anybody can be part of one whole virtual world where everybody is connected and exposed.


Facebook was launched in 2004 byMark Zuckerberg and so far Facebook has 500 + million users (figures dating  from July 2010), so that’s like the whole of North America’s citizens.

Everything we put in gets saved onto a data base (even after we ‘delete’ it), that is why they ask you in the terms&conditons (that they know we never read) if you mind your details and the information you insert being used by 3rd parties before you accept things.

If you don’t know what a 3rd party is , it’s is often used to refer to a person or entity who is not one of two involved in some relationship. It may refer to.

  • Third-party developer, hardware or software developer not directly tied to the primary product that a consumer is using
  • Third-party software component, software which can be used in conjunction with some software or hardware but is not associated with either the manufacturer or the user .

    So think about all the things you do and say on Facebook, all the people you tag in pictures and the pictures you’re tagged in. Read the apps before clicking confirm because they are usually the place where 3rd parties ask for your details in small print.

    Remember that everything you put in Facebook is kept on the database even if you delete it , it has been inserted into their database so it can disappear from your wall if you want it to but will always remains with them.



    They know exactly who you are and where you are because of everything you inserted innnocently in the beginning before you assumed anything.

    So all you criminals looooooool don’t commit any crimes because as you’ve seen or must’ve seen before on the news they go into people profiles to catch criminals and expose this on the news and say things like ..“They wrote various abusive messages to X XY stating they were going to ‘catch’ them as others clicked ‘Like’ in response to this..many of whom responded were also arrested and taken in for questioning about the murder of XXY. Thats all from me Nisha Pillai on BBC News goodnight”

    Welcome to the greatest show on earth…FACEBOOK! Where liars tell more lies, losers are now “CEO”s, enemies are cloaked as friends, every sinner is a saint, weak people are cyber thugs, haters complain about haters, every relationship is loving & secure, when really they’re …lonely…& insecure!!! Step right up people, you can be whatever and whoever you wanna be!!!”

    Think deeply about it don’t make any rash decisions, just be careful and think before you type or post of tag or use the site in general…

    The Facebook movie will be out soon and will show the begininng of the idea and how it came about .

    Check out the movie trailer below ..enjoy 😉


    I’m coming Back…Sorry! :S

    Ok Guys !!

    Must Apologise!

    I’m really sorry about the massive break in the blog.

    I have been watching the Dashboard and the views are going up but I havent really been moved to write anything yet.

    I absolutely hate to write without meaning as I’m sure you’ve noticed in most of my blog entries.

    So I’ve had a little break so I can really delve into my mind of minds and theorise in depth with backed up evidence from books and other sources, and give a meal full of food for thought, so you can leave here impacted .


    *smiles widely*



    “I’LL BE BACK!!!!!”

    Alicia Keys ‘Unthinkable’…Interracial couples

    I love this song!

    At first I thought OMG it’s another annoying love song from Ms Keys..

    If you listen closely you get a deeper understading of what she could possibly be talking about…

    The things that came to mind were,

    1: A relationship that one person is more inclined on kicking off, than the other.

    2: A relationship that one halfs family doesn’t condone.

    3:Getting on with the relationship and getting married not caring what anyone has to see.




    Just like that the video concludes and strikes deeeeeep!

    Interacial relationships…


    The subject as common as it is today it’s still a  kind’ve taboo topic!

    Racial prejudice and bigotary on a sophisticated level, have raped the world over and over again and continues to walk off laughing in the face of civil rights, equal rights and racial equality activists!

    Till this day there is still that awkwardness you get with people,when it comes to talking about or accepting this topic.

    Here are some scenarios I’ve come across especially when it’s black and white couples:

    1: Interracial couple walk by and old pensioner who grumbles at his/her disgust at the ‘sight’, stops in his/her tracks and turns  round staring in complete confusion at couple in the distance .

    2:You’re a Nigerian (black) girl dating someone of English (white)background, your friends know your dating someone, but haven’t had the guts to ask. On a boozy night out they jump at the chance, as you awkwardly go into ambiguous details like, “Hes tall”, He’s from bermondsey”, “Hes dating me!” and they ask “What does he look like?” and you, in a totally blissful moment gaze in to the nothings and describe him, smiling so hard your jaw hurts…”He’s got dark hair and the brightest blue eyes, he skates and he loves Family guy”… Your friends look at each other, foreheads crinckled in confusion and blurt out “OMG your dating a white guy???!” you hang your head feeling a strange sense of shame for loving him.

    3:A girlfriend of mine who was white was dating a black guy, who was also a friend of mine. The relationship was reckless and unstable and the girl ended up pregnant. Her mum was intimidated by the guy and didn’t want her to date him. I asked her one day how she felt about the fact she was pregnant and they may not stay together she said, “I might have to get an abortion but it’ll be cute having a little mixed race child with his brown skin and fluffly hair..”

    4: Your parents finally meet your fiance, (shes British but of Somalian heritage)  for the first time. They have planned a big dinner with close family over. Dinner is soaked with awkward silence, with the background noise of knives and forks scratching plates. Conversation finally stabs the silence, the topic is Politics. Political correctness is openly discussed as jokes, and questions like, “Were your parents refugees in this country of just imigrants?” and “So did you have an awful upbringing in a council flat before you went to uni and who funded you?”








    5: Group of white girls walk past an I C, while the white  girl in interracial couple grips partners hand tightly and the black guy grins as the girls giggle amongst themselvses wishing they had a ‘black hunk’ in their arms.














    6: Group of 20 +year old black girls are walking down Oxford Circus, as a Interracial couple walk past.The guy is black the girl is white. The guys puts his head down whilst his girl looks at him sadly then looks at them.The group of black girls make angry suggestive comments and openly express their feelings of  insecurity and anger regarding the men of ‘their race’ being ‘snatched away’. Or anger about their achievements and beauty going to waste because they don’t want to marry outside thier race and theres no black guys left for them.








    Back to the topic!


    Talking about the subject has grown to tire me … honestly.

    If people are in love leave them to fall deeper into it.

    True love, true love I said, lasts forever, the hardest blow couldn’t shake it.Love transcends race, culture, disbalities and all other things the world claims to be barriers or restrictions in the case of love and marriage. 

    The only things that confuses me are the constant catergorizations of  people into race stereotypes, and the stigmas and negetive connotations that follow .

    If people come from the same economic or cultural backround for example , British 2nd generation children of both English and immigrant backgrounds. They grow up in the same communities and schools and see each other as classmates friends, and most of all human beings. Not black, white, brown, blue, orange or any other supposed ‘race’.

    Race isn’t the issue here they relate because they have experienced the same paths of  life and in the end crossed roads and stayed intertwined.


    You do get the people that are so propoganda and media driven,

     and have come from backgrounds where racial prejudice and bigortary is the norm.

    Growing up with people of different races has helped them see past the ignorance of thier parents, but the psycological damage it has done to them it the issue.

    The side effects of this is a nurse/doctor like characteristic, which causes you to want to better a situation.

    Example: A women/man from the background as stated above, finds exactly what the parents have always talked about. He/she has found THE stereotype.

    The stereotype was based on THIS new found person! lool

    So instead of her/him acknowledging what she/he found out before, (that some men/women dont fall into the stereotype) she/he falls for the actual stereotype, and is completely defensive about these characteristics, and works extra shifts just to keep them satisfied whilst the STEREOTYPE puts a good show on in public, and waits till home time, or 1 on 1 time to emotionally abuse the other half. So the product of the racial prejudice background creates and open but ignorant percepion of other races. The person is also unconsciously trying to proove a point to themselves, the wrong way. Trying to draw blood from a stone basically.

    The media driven group have just watched tooo much tv, and the media is full of subliminal propogandas and stereotypes . When you watch television there are so many things you take in that you don’t realise even from childhood.

    Example 1: Disney characters…close your eyes and watch a disney film and you hear voices, the voices are the stereotypical voices of people of different races.

    Example 2: Adverts are ways to draw people into wanting products that they don’t need just to benefit the supplier who will profit from it all finacially.

    They create a certain image and people desire to achieve this not knowing most of it is Photoshopped and ‘graffically perfected’. Not everyone knows this !

    Also the media is for the majority in any country, so in the Western world, if you happen to fall into one of the minority groups ie:


    fuller figured,



    ethnic minorities,

    to name a few. The media is not for you, it does not and will not try to encourage anything that is for you because you aren’t the main concern, because the majority overules, simply because they are the majority.

    That’s how it works and thats how they profit. However if they do use minorities in the media they are usually the ones that look closest to there idea of Western beauty.


    Example 3: Sterotypes;

    Asian/middleeastern men… mathmatical, buisness minded, illiterate,nail manicurists,evil bombers,supergeeks, asexual martial artists, jokers , newsagent store owners and princes..

     African/African American/’Black’ British  men… extremely muscular all brawns no brains,  rappers, animalistic,slow, ghetto born, drunkards, religious, irresponsible , carefree, angry men and gangsters…

    European & Mediterranian men: Chefs,lovers, engineers,Cheese eating,bread and olive eaters, speghetti bolognese regulars, Uzo drinkers, Plates smashers, Umpa dancers, wrist twisting humourous fathers, gansters, womanisers.

    South Americans: Poor, Sexually promiscous, savages, rainforest tree climbers,alchoholics, illiterate, lazywearing sombreros in the blazing sun day in day out.

    North Americans: Nature lovers, tent habitual people, sun, earth, cattle worshippers, passive, childlike obedience.

    ‘White’ British /American men: intelligent, privallied, redneck, white trash, pompous, wealthy, educated, superior,police officers.

    Jews:Greedy, Stingy, Hooked Nosed, Rabbis and other Holy people.

    Arabs:bombers,villainous-cruel palace guards or greedy merchants, barbarics, mechete owners.

    Ok so thats all the research I’m going to do on that part !

    My point is that a stereotype is based on part fact, part assumtion, part fear and part ignorance. It’s usually one experience that leads someone to pressume that everyone they think looks similar to that person physically is the same as that one person.

    However with the constant racial prejudice in the Western world, and portrayals of perfection through the media, minority groups are left with deep insecurity issues. Simply because there are no positive portrayals of themselves,


    and the only ‘positive’  idealogies of perfection are of the majority.


    So they think that that’s the right way to look, and try to compensate for this through things like;

     plastic surgery,

    video girl outfits,

    straighter hair,

    bleaching cream,

    fake tans,



    perms to curl hair, 

    protein shakes to build muscle,

    fake hair to get that more European straighteness and texture,


     lip enhancement and augmentation

    and many many more alternatives to what they actually are.

    This insecurity makes them uncomfortable with themselves so they opt or a ‘better life’ with someone who looks similar to what they see on tv, making the illusion of satisfaction complete for them as they mirror a lifestlye they once saw on tv.

    Dating out of your race wont save you from your insecurity, don’t use people to make yourself feel better and don’t try to be something that you are not. Being around or in a relationship with someone you think has ‘the right type’ of look, is one of the most foolish mistakes one can make. You will never be satisffied until you figure out who you are. Looks are also decieving and these looks that you think are perfect are only an idealisation of perfection for the majority. Don’t feel ugly just feel like a unique individual.


    Relationships: If you are at one with yourself and have confidence in who you are, and want you want in someone else, you are ready to date…

    Dont be ignorant, dont just date someone because of a myth about people of their race look. This will only please you aesthetically, these are  and myths and superficial ideologies. If you dont know his/her upbringing and associassional mates you’ll never know him/her deeply enough, and you’ll never know the real them when they’ll just be placed on your  race pedalstool.

    No race is better we are all equal as human beings, people who dream of or claim superiority are indeed insecure of their race and in fear of a “possible battle of the races” where the supposed “opponent triumphs” over them, theses are deluded dreams.

    When it comes to interracial dating don’t be ignorant, REMEMBER.. you and your date will always have your ethnicities and background cultures, resepect that and expect to gain that respect off who you are dating.

    If you are in a positive relationship (still interracial),forget about everyone and anyone who is only good for nothing but yelling about negetive connotations to you about your partners race. You know your partner.

    Love is the key but last but not least…

    Teach your children about both or how ever many, ethnic backgrounds that are in there DNA.This will make the world a less confused and ignorant place and give them a deeper understanding of who they actually are.

    Time is the ultimate Teller… Time exposes true identities, true relationships and true characteristics…Let time do the talking …

    Human Beings Are Very Valuable Creations. Have Some Self Value So You”ll Know How To Value Others, Treat Others How You’d Like To Be Treated & Most Of All LOVE !!! Experience it… and Share It! It’s Freeeee!:D

    So here the video again watch enjoy…

    How cute is this Duo?!

    Jadan Smith & Justin Beiber!


    Just like his dad clever boy !

    Forget Justin for a while cause we all know whats really good concerning him! (hes the new Justin!)


    Jadan raps and dances alongside Justin Beiber, in the music video for one songs off the soundtrack to the new film he’s in with Jackie Chan, called “THE KARATE KID”

    “…No pun intended I was raised by the power of Will!” <<< awwwwwwwwwwww he acknowledges his dad in his raps !! Cute

    *sings ‘Baby Babeh Babay oooooooooooh’*

    Check Out this Vid and tell me I’m wrong!

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