Hang in there man! You can do this! We can do this!

I been gone for long innit?

Well about a month and a bit…

Hmmmmm!

This is just a quick post by the way so dont expect a novel lool!

Basically its been madddddddddddddddddddd < in all its meaning! My few months!!

I’m not going lie or front and say I didnt think this platform would get me attacked lmao!

I just didnt realise how cunning the devil was, well I knew but I FORGOT!

I got comfortable…..

It’s funny because the Bible always reminds us and also reminds us of the power we have over him but ,

WHEN YOUR TOO BUSY TO READ YOUR BIBLE THERE WILL BE CONSEQUENCES!!!

I’ve realised that now

I’m back at uni and its been stupidly hectic the work load, the schedule, the things outside uni, my life!

TOPSEE TURVYEE MATE I PROMISE YOU!

Basically…..

I’ve learnt alot …

1:People are crazy!
2:Christians are human
3:Life is hard without God's help,he knows this and he keeps telling me too, I'm a stubborn wild child, he knows this, I'm a difficult case *in my eyes* but he gets me especially when noone else does and that is VERY OFTEN!!!!
4:If you dont face your mountains you can't expect to get over them.
5: To whom much is given much is required!
6:You CANNOT live YOUR God given life trying to impress others and live up to THEIR standards of living and "holiness", live by conviction hoping that your heart isn't just hard loool

THESE MONTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTHS!

IF I COULD EXPRESS IT IN WORDS LOOOL YOU’LL THINK IT WAS A YEAR!

Proper tryna toughen me up and that!

Sometimes when things get hard you really should appreciate God alot during those times because hes just saying”Chill out man, nah seriously chill out , I got this son/daughter/child/faithful servant.”

Sometimes I feel like David and sometimes I feel like Moses and even Miriam:

D:Always making stupid mistakes even thought I KNOW better I havent yet learnt how to PROPERLY balance my heart with my mind.

M:Always trying to over compensate and try wayyyy to hard and not just chilax and let God take control, always taking everything upon myself and getting frustrated when things don’t work how I want them too.

M:Constantly doubting resulting in massive problems where I have to be belittled in order to trust!

You dont know me trust me and its funny because alot of people think they do but I can’t count more than 4 people in my life who actually do and accept me for who I am.

A lot of people judge me because they don’t get me and they want me to do things the way they do, this’ll never work,

TRUST ME…

If you watched High School muscial and understand the song “Status quo” <<< unlike that…

*not ashamed of that last pic/reference/and the fact I watched all High School Musicals lool*

I believe in individuality and self expression and I believe God does too thats why we have PERSONAL RELATIONSHIPS with HIM, like children in a class and children to parents all different in our own ways so he deals with and teaches us in different ways and HAS NO FAVOURITES!!

A platform will always bring controversy no matter which way its delivered.

Platforms make you look up to people as if they’re not on the same level as every other HUMAN BEING!

Platforms are places where you need some kind’ve security to keep you balanced and safe.

Platforms make you vulnerable.

Platforms make people think they have the right to judge you.

Platforms can make you look good.

Platforms can make you look really really crazy.

Some people have to watch what they say and do…Some are just real and they recognise that they aren’t perfect and just tend to be as real as possible , because real attracts real, as does fake loool dont get me wrong!

I’ve also seen how people react to me when I’m in need!!!! SHOCKING!!

Either they have forgotten all about LOVE/BENEFIT OF THE DOUBT AND PATIENCE!!!

Boii THANK GOD FOR HIS GRACE PATINCE AND CONTINUOUS UNMERITED,FAVOUR, LOVE AND ATTENTION, FORGIVING SELF, UNDERSTANDING AND GREAT LEADERSHIP SKILLS!!

Because of the following I can always pick myself up again and again, because the righteous man WILL fall the Bible never says one day we’ll stop falling!

How would that work? There’d be no need to Jesus or God we’d be find without Him..

I could be the most revengeful if not for Him because I know how he gives me the benefit of the doubt so I learn to forgive when people shut doors in my face and talk down to me like I’m stupid, when instead they should be exposing the love of God invested in them…sharing it and encouraging their fellow fam in Christ to GROW!! and PERSEVERE!!!

IF YOU KNOW ABOUT THE ‘ROMAN TURTLE’ THIS IS HOW WE SHOULD BE….

MATE ITS NOT EASY!

But we can do ALLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL things through CHRIST  that strengthens us! Phillipians 4v13 😀 🙂 🙂 Yes!!!! Hope!!!

*this is how to tell whether you’re an extremist..right now you’re judging this photo of this mans expression through tattooing.* LMAO!!! 😛

GET A GRIP AND DONT MISS THAT VERSE IN THE BIBLE THAT SAYS: Matthew 7 v 1-2

“1Don’t judge others, and you will not be judged.2 For you will be treated as you treat others, The standard you use in judging is the standard by which you will be judged”.

YOU MAKE THE DEVILS JOB EASIER BY DISMANTLING THE BODY INSTEAD OF PATCHING IT UP… NO MATTER HOW UGLY IT MAKE >>>LOOK!

Jesus purifies NOT man!

Kind’ve like if you judged me for having a Nokia E63 and presummed I misjudged and thought it’d be the same as a BB LOOOL NO just circumstance innit!

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SO THIS POST….IS TO…

1:Remind you and I to stay strong

2:Remind you that strong people can be weak too.

3:Human beings label and catergorize but God doesn’t so trust him with you’re deepest darkest secrets and problems, he’ll reassure you and let you know your value even when you don’t.

4:Trusting God is a vital part of the relationship.

5:A wise person learns from another persons mistakes.

6:God is not a respector of man whoever he chooses to use , nah be im own wahala!!!!!

If you got any queries about me….ask God!

He put me here!

Its a journey …

I’m not trying to be perfect…

Just doing what he wants me to…

P.S: As my Facebook states: “Facebook will never prove how genuine you are about your faith or religion..Why? Facebook is like bespoke tailoring…Made to fit! Its your edited perception of yourself..Dont believe me ? Check your profile pics…”

Awwwww if anyone gets offended don’t worry to much this isn’t so much for you its for the struggling brothers and sisters, keep your head up though , WE CAN DO THIS!

XXXXX Love XXXXX


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…Jokes….Tears and Realisation…

Ok so this story is quite a strange story , well its not strange its just a bit random lool!

You also have to promise not to laugh, but everything happens for a reason as you’ll realise at the end of this blog post!

1…2…3.

Ok so last night, I sat in bed …

I picked up my daily bread and read it …

I’m not gonna try and front because I’m Christian, and say “Oh I was blesssssed and heavens floodgates poured out all over me!”

Nah not even, I didnt get it not because it wasn’t factual but because I was itching for something , to quench the thirst in my life, and at that point it weren’t wetting my spirit…

So I picked up this book I’m reading called

“Be angry but don’t blow it”

looool bet that gave you an insight into my walk!

 

Great book, (yeah…I’m on page 11, and I read fast… :()

But not for that moment in time…

So I picked up my Bible…

I had my iPod playing out loud on my speakers in the backgroud and it was on the ‘On the Go’ list , on shuffle..<<<I love the way i just built up momentum there, I’m getting scared and I’m the one typing..and I know the story! What is this!?

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Ok so yeah I decided to take a trip down Roman Lane .

I started at Romans 1 again reading the footnotes and the verses and that…

THENNNN!

*does tearing sound*

I tore the top of the page!!!!!

I gasped for air, in total shock…

And then I felt my lips pouting and my eyes swelling?

could it be …?!.

I sobbed for like 2 seconds ..

I know…right now Christians aswell as non believers might think I’m some stupid emotional fragile woos!

Don’t care let me finish my story…

Then I asked my self… “Why are you crying?”

and I just clocked over all over again…

(I’m gonna tell you it,in the stages of thought as it was in my head )

(Song playing at that moment in time.. Agnus Dei by Donnie Mcclurkin)

1:I’ve never torn my Bible before…

2:I really love my Bible…

3:This is the Bible that my dad got me on my birthday

4:This is the same Bible I begged for for years , one that has maps, notes, charts,character profiles, timelines, theology scripts and everythinggg..

5:This is the Bible I began to take my walk seriously with

6:This is the Bible that I quote from confidently

7:This is the Bible that gave me life

8:If my Bible is torn and I loose some words…no what would happen if one day my Bible was confiscated? like by law?

9:I am nothing without my Bible…

10:I am nothing without God….

YIKES!!!!

Its funny because I knew this…

Yeah I knew this but I forgot I think.

Being human is quite annoying, your Id always gets the better of you because it’s uncontrollable, and it’s desires are always beyond belief. But as the bible says  Jeremiah 17 v9-10 “The human heart is the most decietful of all things, and desperatley wicked.Who really knows how bad it is? But I the Lord searches all hearts and examin secret motives. i give all people their due rewards, according to what their actions deserve.”

Then I started to think about my place on earth my purpose and my plaforms.

Check this first and then I’ll explain myself…

Romans 1 v17-32

(You can read it yourself but I’m going to type it up for clarity)

17:This Good News tells us how God makes us right in hs sight.This accomplished from start to finish by faith. As the Scripture says, “It is through faith that a righteous person has life”

Meaning its only through faith, and our trust in Christ that we are right with God… believing in the freedom Christ brings, and the forgiveness through the sheading of His blood on the cross. Anything we’ve done has been forgiven and forgotten, and a chance to be right accoring to Gods standards is now available.

 18:But God shows his anger from heaven against all sinful, wicked people who supress the truth by their wickedness. 19:They know the truth about God because he has made it obvious to them. 20: for ever since the world was created, people have seen the earth and sky. Through everything God made, they can clearly see his invisible qualities-his eternal power and divine nature. So they have no excuses for not knowing God.

Youch guys!! loool there you go, saved or not saved , and for the saved guys I hope this shows you something to reference back to if you witness to an athiest 🙂 Just take a look outside and ask yourself who and how the earth itself was created. The fact that it is the only planet with living beings, oxygen water and land, evergrowing and that, and if its due to your ‘evolution’ then why are the other planets not ‘evolving’?…

21:Yes, they knew God, but they wouldn’t worship him as God or even give him thanks. And they began to think up foolish ideas of what God was like. As a result, their minds became dark and confused. 22:Claiming to be wise, they instead became utter fools. 23: and instead of worshipping the glorious, ever living God, they worshipped idols made to look like mere people and birds and animals and reptiles.

Ahahahaha I think this might just be a one man joke..

This was MEEEEEEEEEEE guys! Some any scientific know it all goon that thought they had all the answers to query the very exsistence of God?! Huuuh Waaat! Yes! Me ! Believe it please . I was a Hippie, a Buddhist, a punk, an emo, a Skinhead and anything else i could test out! I used to chant the locust chant “Namyur rekucher”. This apparently was supposed to calm me down and help me think positively and straight and when I feel like lashing out I was to do this…? Like counting to 10!

I belived in peace and love and understanding , I hated rules and I never ever understood the reason for Christ I used to say “He just makes it so difficult like why cant we just pray to God?” I used to say “If God created the world why is this and why is that?” and I never acutally sat down and read the Word of God?! I know how does that work ..where was my opinion formed from loool?! 

I was a crazy evolutionsists with so called theorys!

Mad!

I invented my own God who done things my way and no this wasn’t the Arc of Covenant God wasn’t hovering between no cherubims loool….

 

I was always a top student always got good grades from primary school I used to get 6a’s like the topest of the possible grade and I never even tried hard loool, even when I got kicked out of school and put in center , missed months of schooling, I did my GCSE’s and got A’s and B’s and C’s. I went through college barely going in and got nice marks to go uni with.

I got abit too big for my boots and thought because ‘I made it this far‘ I must be as dumb as the wisest man!

CONFIDENCE!

Went to a lot of church services in my life and had been performing on stage since I was 5 infront of large Christian audiences.

God was using me even though I wasn’t really in line with him, this also relates back to Paul… 

 

I was a Christian on sundays and when it was relevant.

Noone knew what I was getting up to behind closed doors .

So when I started searching during my college days I had a Bible study mentor who used to really put up with me and teach me but as stuborn as I was and hard hearted I used to say things like “But we all make mistakes and noones perfect” there was an excuse for everything…

Watch this video …”Almost saved” by P4CM..

This is what my life as like…

The last part of this verse in Romans said…

24:”So God abandoned them to do whatever shameful things their hearts desired. As a result, they did vile and degrading things with each other’s bodies. 25: They traded the truth about God for a lie. so they worshipped and served the things God created instead of the Creator himself, who is worthy of eternal praise! Amen. ..28:since they thought it foolish to acknowledge God , he abandoned them to their foolish thinking and let them do things that should never be done.29:Their lives became full of every kind of wickedness, sin, greed, hate, envy, murder, quarelling, deception, malicious behaviour and gossip.30: they are backstabbers, haters of God, insolent, proud, and boastful.They invent new ways of sining, and they disobey their parents.31:They refuse to understand, break their promises, are heartless and have no mercy. 32:They know God’s justice requires that those who do theses things deserved to die, yet they do them anyway. Worse yet, they encourage others to do them too.

Again that was me…Sinning and doing it with such guilt but the  more I did it the less I cared, because I thought God would understand. What people don’t understand when it comes to sin is that, sin is everything that God hates, and the standards for sin belong to God we can’t just start trying to decide what we think is and isn’t a sin when we didn’t create ourselves. People who do that are not living according to the ways of God’s righteousness, they have chosen to do their own thing and because God sees their hearts as the Scripture says, he knows when they’ve gone to far with their hardened hearts and abandons them to think the way they think, and allows them to convince them selves they aren’t doing anything bad. 

I was a proper Prodigal daughter boi!!

If your not clear about this go to Luke 16 v11-32

 I came across this scripture… in Romans loool (again) and I laughed at the raw truth and sarcasim and stopped in silence to a realisation which I had not yet.

Romans 3 v10-22…

10:As the Scripture says, Noone is righteous- not even one.11:Noone is truly wise; noone is seeking God.12:All have turned away; all have become useless. noone does good not a sinlge one. 13:Their talk is foul, like the stench from and open grave. Their tongues are filled with lies. Snake venom drips from their lips.14: Their mouths are full of cursing and bitterness. 15:They rush to commit murder.16: Destruction and misery always follow them. 17:They don’t know where to find peace.18:They have no fear of God at all.”

:)AND NOW THE ICING ON TOP OF THE CAKE 🙂

watch the sarcasim loooooool!!! 😀

19: OBVIOUSLY,the law applies to those to whom it was given, for it’s purpose is to keep people from having excuses and to show that the entire world is guilty before God. 20:for no one can ever be made right with God by doing what the law commands, the law simply shows us how sinful we are. 

 In my Bible I noted, Yearn to be more like Jesus, put away anything that proves otherwise. Appreciate God’s love…boi forever imperfect, God must really love us ! :S

21:But now God has shown us a way to be made right with him without keeping the requirements of the law, as was promised in the writings of Moses and the prophets long ago. 22: We are made right with God by placing our faith in Jesus Christ. And this is true for everyone who believes, no matter who we are.

Note to self: Thankyou Jesus!

 So because of Jesus Christ I am now the following.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Ok so you probably think Okay where she going with this shes so weird..

… DO NOT FEAR …

I was convicted….Christians and non believers love to hear that you know lool they seem to like to amplifiy other peoples wrongs.

But God is good and works for a purpose..so its all good..

So…this is my blog rightt?

Yes

This is my platform yes?

Yes Obui whats the point?

Let’s look back at Paul

Paul was an articulate, sensitive, fierce and intense know it all, when he met Christ and became saved the only difference changed was that he channeled all this energy through teaching the gospel.

I started this blog in June I think …

The reason for my blog as the first part says is..

June 2010

The First Desicion…

I have finally made the long overdue decision to start typing my thoughts, and to share them with the rest of the world that has access to the World Wide Web…

The Ocean Is Deep…

It has depths you may never see the bottom of, and so is the depths of my mind also similar…

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I forgot to use my platform….:S

“Hello Obui you there? Hellloooo? Erm i heard you had something to tell us? something we needed to know.. ? no? When you’re ready then? Erm..Okay bye?”

And for a long time I’ve had writers block… and realised that I’ve slyly been misusing this platform. Like Paul he channeled his passions and characteristics through Christ like things and teaching the Gospel.

To be honest and logical if Paul didnt go to Rome, then the Bible couldv’e taken a little longer to get to Britain, as if you read history you’d know the Romans invaded Britain and took over and had the English as slaves, teaching the people the ‘new way’ which was infact ‘Christian’… in their own way mind you loool.

So where does this leave me as a Christian, who is supposed to go out into the world and spread the good news??

This would mean I would use this blog to communicate the Gospel to those who have misunderstood *YAYS* 😀 as I once was in that postion… 😦

The funny thing is, as I’m sure I now sound obsessesed with Paul but..another thing Paul said that I totally agree with and am feeling these days is this…

Phillipians 1:21-24For to me, living means living for Christ, and dying is even better. But if I love, I can do more fruitful work for Christ. So I really don’t know which is better. I’m torn between two desires; I long to go and be with Christ, which would be far better for me. but for your sakes, it is better that I continue to live”

The Bible does says that “Teach and counsel each other with the wisdom he gives” and “Whatever you do or say, do it as a representative of the Lord Jesus giving thanks through him to God the Father”

This does tend to leave me feeling like this….

So now on my blog its gonna be.. as Brandon and Armor say …

 “Straight Gospel no positive gas!”

Its all good talking about things that are uplifting and teaching people about things they don’t know but what is the point of that knowledge when there are people who don’t even know Christ?

The Gopsel is positivity in itself!

The Gospel is Life! everlating!

HOWEVER….

IM NOT GOING TO DELETE STUFF I WROTE FROM MY BLOG AND OFF MY FACEBOOK ..

As most Christians do to proove they are ‘righteous’ .I’ll leave every trace of my past there or whatevers left of it…That way you’ll be able to see the difference and see the Jesus I represent, like Paul.. his story was told from the begining of him not just from his time as an Apostle.

Repping Christ to the fullest in anyway possible, no apologies guys!

……CHANGE…..

I’m coming Back…Sorry! :S

Ok Guys !!

Must Apologise!

I’m really sorry about the massive break in the blog.

I have been watching the Dashboard and the views are going up but I havent really been moved to write anything yet.

I absolutely hate to write without meaning as I’m sure you’ve noticed in most of my blog entries.

So I’ve had a little break so I can really delve into my mind of minds and theorise in depth with backed up evidence from books and other sources, and give a meal full of food for thought, so you can leave here impacted .

 

*smiles widely*

 

BUT FOR NOW,

“I’LL BE BACK!!!!!”

Alicia Keys ‘Unthinkable’…Interracial couples

I love this song!

At first I thought OMG it’s another annoying love song from Ms Keys..

If you listen closely you get a deeper understading of what she could possibly be talking about…

The things that came to mind were,

1: A relationship that one person is more inclined on kicking off, than the other.

2: A relationship that one halfs family doesn’t condone.

3:Getting on with the relationship and getting married not caring what anyone has to see.

THEN

BAM!

IN YOUR FACE IGNORANT WORLD!

Just like that the video concludes and strikes deeeeeep!

Interacial relationships…

* WATCH , LISTEN, UNDERSTAND*

The subject as common as it is today it’s still a  kind’ve taboo topic!

Racial prejudice and bigotary on a sophisticated level, have raped the world over and over again and continues to walk off laughing in the face of civil rights, equal rights and racial equality activists!

Till this day there is still that awkwardness you get with people,when it comes to talking about or accepting this topic.

Here are some scenarios I’ve come across especially when it’s black and white couples:

1: Interracial couple walk by and old pensioner who grumbles at his/her disgust at the ‘sight’, stops in his/her tracks and turns  round staring in complete confusion at couple in the distance .

2:You’re a Nigerian (black) girl dating someone of English (white)background, your friends know your dating someone, but haven’t had the guts to ask. On a boozy night out they jump at the chance, as you awkwardly go into ambiguous details like, “Hes tall”, He’s from bermondsey”, “Hes dating me!” and they ask “What does he look like?” and you, in a totally blissful moment gaze in to the nothings and describe him, smiling so hard your jaw hurts…”He’s got dark hair and the brightest blue eyes, he skates and he loves Family guy”… Your friends look at each other, foreheads crinckled in confusion and blurt out “OMG your dating a white guy???!” you hang your head feeling a strange sense of shame for loving him.

3:A girlfriend of mine who was white was dating a black guy, who was also a friend of mine. The relationship was reckless and unstable and the girl ended up pregnant. Her mum was intimidated by the guy and didn’t want her to date him. I asked her one day how she felt about the fact she was pregnant and they may not stay together she said, “I might have to get an abortion but it’ll be cute having a little mixed race child with his brown skin and fluffly hair..”

4: Your parents finally meet your fiance, (shes British but of Somalian heritage)  for the first time. They have planned a big dinner with close family over. Dinner is soaked with awkward silence, with the background noise of knives and forks scratching plates. Conversation finally stabs the silence, the topic is Politics. Political correctness is openly discussed as jokes, and questions like, “Were your parents refugees in this country of just imigrants?” and “So did you have an awful upbringing in a council flat before you went to uni and who funded you?”

 

  

  

  

  

 

  

5: Group of white girls walk past an I C, while the white  girl in interracial couple grips partners hand tightly and the black guy grins as the girls giggle amongst themselvses wishing they had a ‘black hunk’ in their arms.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

6: Group of 20 +year old black girls are walking down Oxford Circus, as a Interracial couple walk past.The guy is black the girl is white. The guys puts his head down whilst his girl looks at him sadly then looks at them.The group of black girls make angry suggestive comments and openly express their feelings of  insecurity and anger regarding the men of ‘their race’ being ‘snatched away’. Or anger about their achievements and beauty going to waste because they don’t want to marry outside thier race and theres no black guys left for them.

 

 

 

 

 

IM NOT GOING TO BORE YOU WITH ANYMORE  SCENARIOS.

THESE HAVE ALL HAPPENED BEFORE, THEY ARE THINGS I’VE WITNESSED, EXPERIENCED AND HAD FRIENDS EXPERIENCE.

Back to the topic!

INTERRACIAL REALTIONSHIPS ..THE TABOO.

Talking about the subject has grown to tire me … honestly.

If people are in love leave them to fall deeper into it.

True love, true love I said, lasts forever, the hardest blow couldn’t shake it.Love transcends race, culture, disbalities and all other things the world claims to be barriers or restrictions in the case of love and marriage. 

The only things that confuses me are the constant catergorizations of  people into race stereotypes, and the stigmas and negetive connotations that follow .

If people come from the same economic or cultural backround for example , British 2nd generation children of both English and immigrant backgrounds. They grow up in the same communities and schools and see each other as classmates friends, and most of all human beings. Not black, white, brown, blue, orange or any other supposed ‘race’.

Race isn’t the issue here they relate because they have experienced the same paths of  life and in the end crossed roads and stayed intertwined.

ON THE OTHER HAND

You do get the people that are so propoganda and media driven,

 and have come from backgrounds where racial prejudice and bigortary is the norm.

Growing up with people of different races has helped them see past the ignorance of thier parents, but the psycological damage it has done to them it the issue.

The side effects of this is a nurse/doctor like characteristic, which causes you to want to better a situation.

Example: A women/man from the background as stated above, finds exactly what the parents have always talked about. He/she has found THE stereotype.

The stereotype was based on THIS new found person! lool

So instead of her/him acknowledging what she/he found out before, (that some men/women dont fall into the stereotype) she/he falls for the actual stereotype, and is completely defensive about these characteristics, and works extra shifts just to keep them satisfied whilst the STEREOTYPE puts a good show on in public, and waits till home time, or 1 on 1 time to emotionally abuse the other half. So the product of the racial prejudice background creates and open but ignorant percepion of other races. The person is also unconsciously trying to proove a point to themselves, the wrong way. Trying to draw blood from a stone basically.

The media driven group have just watched tooo much tv, and the media is full of subliminal propogandas and stereotypes . When you watch television there are so many things you take in that you don’t realise even from childhood.

Example 1: Disney characters…close your eyes and watch a disney film and you hear voices, the voices are the stereotypical voices of people of different races.

Example 2: Adverts are ways to draw people into wanting products that they don’t need just to benefit the supplier who will profit from it all finacially.

They create a certain image and people desire to achieve this not knowing most of it is Photoshopped and ‘graffically perfected’. Not everyone knows this !

Also the media is for the majority in any country, so in the Western world, if you happen to fall into one of the minority groups ie:

disabled,

fuller figured,

 dwarfism,

elderly, 

ethnic minorities,

to name a few. The media is not for you, it does not and will not try to encourage anything that is for you because you aren’t the main concern, because the majority overules, simply because they are the majority.

That’s how it works and thats how they profit. However if they do use minorities in the media they are usually the ones that look closest to there idea of Western beauty.

Unfortunately!

Example 3: Sterotypes;

Asian/middleeastern men… mathmatical, buisness minded, illiterate,nail manicurists,evil bombers,supergeeks, asexual martial artists, jokers , newsagent store owners and princes..

 African/African American/’Black’ British  men… extremely muscular all brawns no brains,  rappers, animalistic,slow, ghetto born, drunkards, religious, irresponsible , carefree, angry men and gangsters…

European & Mediterranian men: Chefs,lovers, engineers,Cheese eating,bread and olive eaters, speghetti bolognese regulars, Uzo drinkers, Plates smashers, Umpa dancers, wrist twisting humourous fathers, gansters, womanisers.

South Americans: Poor, Sexually promiscous, savages, rainforest tree climbers,alchoholics, illiterate, lazywearing sombreros in the blazing sun day in day out.

North Americans: Nature lovers, tent habitual people, sun, earth, cattle worshippers, passive, childlike obedience.

‘White’ British /American men: intelligent, privallied, redneck, white trash, pompous, wealthy, educated, superior,police officers.

Jews:Greedy, Stingy, Hooked Nosed, Rabbis and other Holy people.

Arabs:bombers,villainous-cruel palace guards or greedy merchants, barbarics, mechete owners.

Ok so thats all the research I’m going to do on that part !

My point is that a stereotype is based on part fact, part assumtion, part fear and part ignorance. It’s usually one experience that leads someone to pressume that everyone they think looks similar to that person physically is the same as that one person.

However with the constant racial prejudice in the Western world, and portrayals of perfection through the media, minority groups are left with deep insecurity issues. Simply because there are no positive portrayals of themselves,

 

and the only ‘positive’  idealogies of perfection are of the majority.

 

So they think that that’s the right way to look, and try to compensate for this through things like;

 plastic surgery,

video girl outfits,

straighter hair,

bleaching cream,

fake tans,

botox,

 

perms to curl hair, 

protein shakes to build muscle,

fake hair to get that more European straighteness and texture,

 

 lip enhancement and augmentation

and many many more alternatives to what they actually are.

This insecurity makes them uncomfortable with themselves so they opt or a ‘better life’ with someone who looks similar to what they see on tv, making the illusion of satisfaction complete for them as they mirror a lifestlye they once saw on tv.

Dating out of your race wont save you from your insecurity, don’t use people to make yourself feel better and don’t try to be something that you are not. Being around or in a relationship with someone you think has ‘the right type’ of look, is one of the most foolish mistakes one can make. You will never be satisffied until you figure out who you are. Looks are also decieving and these looks that you think are perfect are only an idealisation of perfection for the majority. Don’t feel ugly just feel like a unique individual.

BACK TO THE POINTS 😀 AGAIN

Relationships: If you are at one with yourself and have confidence in who you are, and want you want in someone else, you are ready to date…

Dont be ignorant, dont just date someone because of a myth about people of their race look. This will only please you aesthetically, these are  and myths and superficial ideologies. If you dont know his/her upbringing and associassional mates you’ll never know him/her deeply enough, and you’ll never know the real them when they’ll just be placed on your  race pedalstool.

No race is better we are all equal as human beings, people who dream of or claim superiority are indeed insecure of their race and in fear of a “possible battle of the races” where the supposed “opponent triumphs” over them, theses are deluded dreams.

When it comes to interracial dating don’t be ignorant, REMEMBER.. you and your date will always have your ethnicities and background cultures, resepect that and expect to gain that respect off who you are dating.

If you are in a positive relationship (still interracial),forget about everyone and anyone who is only good for nothing but yelling about negetive connotations to you about your partners race. You know your partner.

Love is the key but last but not least…

Teach your children about both or how ever many, ethnic backgrounds that are in there DNA.This will make the world a less confused and ignorant place and give them a deeper understanding of who they actually are.

Time is the ultimate Teller… Time exposes true identities, true relationships and true characteristics…Let time do the talking …

Human Beings Are Very Valuable Creations. Have Some Self Value So You”ll Know How To Value Others, Treat Others How You’d Like To Be Treated & Most Of All LOVE !!! Experience it… and Share It! It’s Freeeee!:D

So here the video again watch enjoy…

Forreduci Clothing,Philosophy & Fashion..

Forreduci is a new urban high fashion clothing brand.

In my opinion the brand bridges the gap between urban street styles and luxury high fashion,  making it accessible for people who want to invest in luxury quality fashion at a price that suits their budget and meets their style needs.

 

The store opening on the 10th of October 2009, was a complete success with Uk Garage frontman Megaman of ‘So Solid’ group, who counted down and cut the ribbon prounouncing the long awaited grand opening of Forreduci clothing store on the Walworth Road in south London where it all began.

What I love most about Forreduci is that unlike regular high fashion designers, he has an actual understanding of the background of his audience. He knows what they want and supplies it to them.

 

As Fashion Theorists tell us our clothing choices are our idealized perceptions of ourselves; combining our true inner selves and the external influences.

So….

People want to wear the latest but are searching for individuality,  a way to be different and distinctive…

*Purchase Forreduci*

 

Usually in fashion the designers pick up on a trend that is starting up in the streets and comercialize it, handing back to its original group of distinctive people at a higher price, these people, who in actual fact invented the uniform as a social code.

“Clothing does a good deal more than simply clad the body for warmth, modesty or comfort. Codes of dress are technical devices whih articulate the relationship between a particular body and lived milueu, the space occupied by bodies and constituted by bodily actions. In other words clothes construct a personal habitus.”                            (Craik 1994)

 Uk artists such as Sway, Tinchy Stryder,Giggs, AStar, Lethal B and PDC too name but a few, have already jumped on board in full support of the brand,  and can relate to the drive towards sucess behind it.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 This niche brand represents the real hustle, and the hustlers out there recognise that and invest in it. Unfiltered and as authentic as can be, Forreduci creates a brand for ‘the people’ the ‘underdogs‘ and the innercity youth who aspire for greatness and a fashion brands that actually gets this correct.

These are some of my favourites peices…

 

 
 

 

Words of Wisdom and philosophy for great achievements from the CEO @ Forreduci:

Store opening 10th October 2009

Forreduci Fashion Clothing: New Spring/Summer 2010 Collectionis available in stores now. The Online shop will be stocked on the 10th July.

Stay Trendy this Summer.

 www.forreduci.co.uk

http://www.twitter.com/forreduci

This Guy CRAAAAACKS me UP!! His take on Beyonces acting!

AfricanoBoiShow on Youtube

He makes me laugh I just love the way he’s eyes just jitter around when he goes into detail!

See the way he tried to sweeten up the truth about Beyonce!

Gotta love him man!

 

Lenny Kravitz & The Lucky Sons of Bitches!

 A random passer by, was drawn to a familiar sound whilst in New Orleans.

That passer by happened to be, Rock Pop and RnB sensation.

 

Lenny Kravitz!!!

*girls scream and faint, piling over on unconscious loads of body *

Kravitz went down and joined the Voice Of Praise Choir New Orleans aka “The Lucky Sons Of Bitches” for a truely memorable remix live performance of his hit song “Fly Away”.

Watch the video honestly you ‘ll be grinning like an idiot wishing you were there!

 Don’t be jealous just be envious! loool.

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